I avoided giving specific examples because it's usually not phrased as bluntly as I put it in the secret--it's more of an underlying assumption that gradually becomes apparent if you're exposed to it enough. In addition, even works that contain a lot of it may also have exceptions. (For instance, Persona 4 has way too many subplots in which someone who's discontent with his or her lot in life eventually realizes that he or she likes the way things are after all, but it also includes the character of Kanji, who becomes comfortable in an identity that doesn't match society's expectations.)