Yeah, I get you. Personally my breakthrough moment past this issue was when I realized that literally, gender does not matter to me. At all. But I'm a 50/50 bisexual, and not everyone is -- you might be 60/40 or more tilting towards guys, and then it's a little more muddled.
But basically I can tell you that if the idea of a vagina is sexy to you and not just in a "ooh I can fantasize that's MY vagina and the things that are being done to it" way, you are probably at least a little gay. I have met very few straight women who can even stand the idea of going down on another girl, tbh.
Re: Non-fandom secrets
Yeah, I get you. Personally my breakthrough moment past this issue was when I realized that literally, gender does not matter to me. At all. But I'm a 50/50 bisexual, and not everyone is -- you might be 60/40 or more tilting towards guys, and then it's a little more muddled.
But basically I can tell you that if the idea of a vagina is sexy to you and not just in a "ooh I can fantasize that's MY vagina and the things that are being done to it" way, you are probably at least a little gay. I have met very few straight women who can even stand the idea of going down on another girl, tbh.