is this some super elaborate trolling about demisexuality or asexuality or something
???
anyway, if you're being honest here, than, yeah, you are the exception in the other extreme
for most people, feeling that initial spark of attraction is a completely different process from any conscious thought
people can think "oh hey, that person is hot" without giving a shit about their personality, just their looks, apparent attitude, style, whatever
the whole "hmm is this person worth my time/should I let them know I'm interest/should I curb this or let it grow" is conscious and comes later, and THAT is the thing that people do have control over
Re: Is it wrong...
is this some super elaborate trolling about demisexuality or asexuality or something
???
anyway, if you're being honest here, than, yeah, you are the exception in the other extreme
for most people, feeling that initial spark of attraction is a completely different process from any conscious thought
people can think "oh hey, that person is hot" without giving a shit about their personality, just their looks, apparent attitude, style, whatever
the whole "hmm is this person worth my time/should I let them know I'm interest/should I curb this or let it grow" is conscious and comes later, and THAT is the thing that people do have control over