(Of course there is a chance that the wand was handed down to Charlie from someone else who then handed it down to Ron when he got a wand made specifically for him)
And Harry didn't break things when picking out his wand (unless that is some shit the movies added in, no idea) unless you mean in the seventh book when he was using a wand that he did not conquer properly. A wand can choose a new master. I suppose we can assume that by being passed down like with the Weasleys, the wand will recognize the intent of the person passing down the wand and take the new kid for a master (though i think on pottermore there was some stuff about the different qualities of certain wand woods, so it might depend on the kind of wand a lot too)
Honestly, I think what it really comes down to is Rowling not having completely taught out wand lore yet when she wrote the first books so not everything fits exactly.
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(Of course there is a chance that the wand was handed down to Charlie from someone else who then handed it down to Ron when he got a wand made specifically for him)
And Harry didn't break things when picking out his wand (unless that is some shit the movies added in, no idea) unless you mean in the seventh book when he was using a wand that he did not conquer properly. A wand can choose a new master. I suppose we can assume that by being passed down like with the Weasleys, the wand will recognize the intent of the person passing down the wand and take the new kid for a master (though i think on pottermore there was some stuff about the different qualities of certain wand woods, so it might depend on the kind of wand a lot too)
Honestly, I think what it really comes down to is Rowling not having completely taught out wand lore yet when she wrote the first books so not everything fits exactly.