9. Totally agree with you. Maybe I'm oversensitive because I'm actually a victim of rape, but it makes me so damn ANGRY to see so much rape in fandom. I mean, I know some people write about it to help with their own healing and that is something I don't mind because it clearly serves some kind of purpose to the writer and it's helping them get over something terrible. That's awesome. But when people do it that way, it tends to actually be realistic...not foreplay.
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I mean, I know some people write about it to help with their own healing and that is something I don't mind because it clearly serves some kind of purpose to the writer and it's helping them get over something terrible. That's awesome. But when people do it that way, it tends to actually be realistic...not foreplay.