And you don't know 100% about what is going on in the lives of the people left behind. And you don't know 100% about what they're going through.
I think people are allowed to be disappointed when others move on, and given a brush off instead of a nice I just need to move on, okay we understand, no deep explanations needed, because you don't know what is going on in their lives, either, and you will never know.
At least I gave people on my lists that much when I moved on to Tumblr. There was no need for deep talk, but enough to acknowledge that they have been friends. They deserve that much and were very understanding. No uncomfortable talks. Just enough to let them know that they haven't done anything wrong.
Because, you never know how much it might hurt someone for not at least being acknowledged instead of being snubbed. Because you don't know 100% what going on behind closed doors with their lives.
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I think people are allowed to be disappointed when others move on, and given a brush off instead of a nice I just need to move on, okay we understand, no deep explanations needed, because you don't know what is going on in their lives, either, and you will never know.
At least I gave people on my lists that much when I moved on to Tumblr. There was no need for deep talk, but enough to acknowledge that they have been friends. They deserve that much and were very understanding. No uncomfortable talks. Just enough to let them know that they haven't done anything wrong.
Because, you never know how much it might hurt someone for not at least being acknowledged instead of being snubbed. Because you don't know 100% what going on behind closed doors with their lives.
It goes both ways fyi.