Maybe we're reading the secret slightly differently? I'm in no way saying that the OP has a good attitude (my original comment was more directed at the idea that people aren't really writers if they're not a certain way, and I was thinking more in general terms than just the OP's situation), but I'm not reading it so much as 'this Unworthy person is popular so I must ragequit' but more like 'I've realised that talent isn't the only factor in people being published and I haven't figured out how to deal with that reality so I'm lashing out at the unfairness.' I would hope that they do get over that attitude. It's pretty crap. But I also don't think that acting like that now somehow means they'll never get over it.

So curious what you're defining as 'actual writing'.