Exactly. If it was just a day out, then I can see why the OP's friend would think that the OP is ok with paying for everything (though she really should have asked first!)
But the OP seems to imply that the online friend stayed for more than one day (either that, or they got a shitload done in a single day) so it's downright rude of the friend to not bring a present and/or offer to pay for some of the expenses. Even offering to do the dishes, or to cook dinner, or to pay for some gas, or some snacks for a movie night, etc. would have been fine.
But the things that the OP mentioned they did would cost hundreds of dollars all-up. If I was the friend, I'd feel guilty for making someone I just met irl pay so much money for me to have a good time.
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But the OP seems to imply that the online friend stayed for more than one day (either that, or they got a shitload done in a single day) so it's downright rude of the friend to not bring a present and/or offer to pay for some of the expenses. Even offering to do the dishes, or to cook dinner, or to pay for some gas, or some snacks for a movie night, etc. would have been fine.
But the things that the OP mentioned they did would cost hundreds of dollars all-up. If I was the friend, I'd feel guilty for making someone I just met irl pay so much money for me to have a good time.