OK F!S, I'm talking to you lot about this, since I don't really have anyone else I can explain this to.

I went on three dates with a guy. He was a total sweetheart, friendly and upbeat, we got on really well, and spent most of our time chatting away. BUT he did come on a little strong, messaging me on facebook and texting me all the time. While I enjoyed chatting IRL, I'm not as talkative online. I just don't know what to say most of the time.

I also have a lot of difficulty trusting guys; I tend to be suspicious of their motives.

Also, around about that time, I was confused about my sexuality. So, on our third date, I dumped him. I felt like a terrible human being, but he was really awesome about it.

TL;DR - I got scared off because I was confused and I have trouble trusting people. Months later I still thought fondly of him, and regretted breaking it off.

A while back, I tentatively contacted him on facebook, wanting to catch up. He texted me a few days ago. So we're probably going to meet up for coffee next week.

I think I probably have feelings for this guy. Legitimate feelings, since as soon as I got that text I started doing a happy dance in the living room, and I was STILL happy driving to work.

WHAT DO I DO?

Should I tell him: "Sorry I was a standoffish douchenozzle, I actually like you, want to go out?"

I don't even know if I should tell him about the whole sexuality thing, as I'm barely able to come out to myself, let alone anyone IRL.