See, I'm FINE with that. My problem with Friska/Edgey is, like you said, the people who try to "sugarcoat" it. If you can write it well while taking, uh, everything else in their dynamic into account? Then my hat is definitely fucking off to you, and I can completely respect that--because they DO have a deep and dynamic relationship with one another.

It's the people who sugarcoat it and ignore what's already there that make me >_<

But kudos to you, OP. I can totally respect that.