25 - I see your point, but I also feel the need to defend myself too. I like cute games a lot. Nothing pleases me more than sitting there for hours playing Animal Crossing or Sims/Sims 2. I don't do it because that's what I think I'm supposed to play as a girl who likes games, but because that's just what I like. Of course, I like other things like Zelda, Phoenix Wright, Elite Beat Agents (although I'm not very good at it) Guitar Hero, various incarnations of Mario, Street Fighter and even the Civilisation games.
As for FPS games, I DO find them too hard, but I think that's largely because I have a very hard time looking around the entire screen for things to shoot at, and by the time I do find something to shoot, it's usually killed me.
So while I somewhat agree with you, I'd just like to point out that not all girls who play cute games are doing it for those reasons. I just like cute games.