Psh. Way to pigeonhole people. Just because people have different preferences than you, doesn't make them any more or less of a gamer than you. It's really sad that you seriously buy into sexist stereotypes like that. People of all genders play RPGs. People of all genders play FPS games. It's a matter of preference. I'm sure most girls don't think "Hm, I have a pussy and boobs, so I might as well completely skip over this section at my game store and only go for JRPGS and Cooking Mama."

People play whatever the heck they want. It's a matter of preference, not of genitalia. It sucks that you and your friends are so judgmental over shit like that, but that's your prerogative.