Yeah, the thing is, I know how you do it, but it is hard to explain how we do it. Like, we're already out at a party or bar or park or wherever. We're already doing something. And then you meet someone or start talking to someone you already knew with flirty intentions and continue doing that activity with them. Kissing might or might not ensue. sometimes you flirt with a person several times at separate occasions before it happens. You might go to a bar expecting to meet them again there or even say 'hey, I'm gonna be at X next Saturday' but you don't actually make a date and go together.