It's nice to think of Lent as a period of transformation, but framing it as a time where deprivation isn't the point is... well, not understanding what Lent is. Lent is traditionally about atonement and self-denial. You're transformed, yes... by your voluntary self-deprivation of something you would ordinarily not go without.
That sounds kind of harsh, but hey, welcome to religion.
Re: Do you observe Lent? if so, what are you giving up this year?
That sounds kind of harsh, but hey, welcome to religion.