Then what's the point of making the secret? "I DON'T LIKE A THING." "Why don't you like the thing?" "I JUST DON'T. STOP INTERROGATING ME." If you didn't want people to ask questions why'd you come out into the open to yell about it? I always assumed the point of this community was to have a discussion about things that bother you without having to come out in public about it with your name and everything.