it is dependent on experience and it is also unique to the individual.
the problems some of us are having is that while unique to the individual, this pervasive attitude that no one else has eeeeeveeeeer felt paaaaain like they haaaaaave, is bullshit. we've all had pain, we've all hurt. no, not in the same way individually, but as individuals, we've all hurt.
there's a difference.
that said, I agree with you, actually because the OP's secret was about how she came out of it and is advising those emo!teens that fandom doesn't always solve the problems.
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the problems some of us are having is that while unique to the individual, this pervasive attitude that no one else has eeeeeveeeeer felt paaaaain like they haaaaaave, is bullshit. we've all had pain, we've all hurt. no, not in the same way individually, but as individuals, we've all hurt.
there's a difference.
that said, I agree with you, actually because the OP's secret was about how she came out of it and is advising those emo!teens that fandom doesn't always solve the problems.