Same. I go with female just because that's the body I have, but I've never felt wholly comfortable with that. I would have preferred to been born male but I also don't really want to transition. Sometimes I have dreams where I'm male and I wake up so fucking sad that it's not true. But then a large percentage of the time I don't give a fuck about gender or even think about it. My clothes are a mix of everything from 'girly' dresses to mens clothes and I'll mix and match or go to either end of the spectrum* depending on mood.
tl;dr Same. I'm a mess when it comes to gender ID.
*used for ease of description, I don't actually think "girls wear dresses, boys wear suits/whatever" is a Gender Rule or that it's a spectrum at all.
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tl;dr Same. I'm a mess when it comes to gender ID.
*used for ease of description, I don't actually think "girls wear dresses, boys wear suits/whatever" is a Gender Rule or that it's a spectrum at all.