If they're so strong they go through the winter coat, then to hell with trying to "fix" things with padding or pasties. In fact, just tell hell with being embarrassed at all. As much as people try to pretend otherwise, breasts naturally DO look like (*)(*) just as often as they look like ()(). I'd try getting comfortable about how it looks, some self-confidence excersizes, until you can go out and stand tall and just