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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-05-02 06:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #2677 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2677 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Scribbler]


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02.
[bioshock infinite: burial at sea]


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04.
[True Detective]


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08.
[fire emblem/super smash bros]


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10.
[World of Warcraft]


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12. [SPOILERS for Hannibal]



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13. [SPOILERS for Bioshock: Infinite]



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14. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]



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15. [WARNING for rape/abuse I'm assuming? Ramsay/Theon stuff]
http://i.imgur.com/Xo0GSkI.png



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16. [WARNING for mental illness/hospitals]



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17. [WARNING for depression]



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18. [WARNING for eating disorders]



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19. [WARNING for rape]

[Game of Thrones]








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[personal profile] fscom 2014-05-02 10:42 pm (UTC)(link)
17. [WARNING for depression]
http://s4.postimg.org/mx99br6r1/secret.jpg

(Anonymous) 2014-05-02 11:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Did all the people in one movie do something horrible or did I read this wrong? help?
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[personal profile] arcadiaego 2014-05-02 11:49 pm (UTC)(link)
I think maybe they're referring to X-Men (although it would still be a massive exaggeration).
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[personal profile] iceyred 2014-05-02 11:17 pm (UTC)(link)
This is very melodramatic.
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[personal profile] intrigueing 2014-05-02 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
You know, it's very hard for people either disagree or sympathize if you don't actually say what the things that bothered you were, OP! Come on, you don't have to name the movie or anything. Just make it possible to understand what you're talking about.
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[personal profile] mk10 2014-05-03 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
This secret is confusing. What horrible things? Did the people in fandom do horrible things, or the actors in the movie? Or is it just the actions of the characters OP is upset about?
And why is the OP somehow responsible for their actions?

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TW rape: rape apologists in comments

(Anonymous) 2014-05-03 12:45 am (UTC)(link)
If the fandom is X-Men, it may be about this:

http://www.queerty.com/x-men-director-bryan-singer-accused-of-drug-fueled-sexual-abuse-of-teenage-boy-20140417/

Don't read the comments!

Though just based on the article, it seems like a long reach to argue that everybody in the films "knowingly enabled" the sexual abuse.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-05-03 12:09 am (UTC)(link)
warning for depression? is this a usual thing?
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[personal profile] sarillia 2014-05-03 12:15 am (UTC)(link)
I've seen people do it when they go really indepth describing the mindset in a way that can upset people who have experienced it and are afraid of falling back into it. I wouldn't lecture someone for not warning for it but it's nice when people do.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-05-03 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
Makes sense. I'd just never seen it before.

(Anonymous) 2014-05-03 03:23 am (UTC)(link)
OP. OP OP OP. Gonna assume you're talking about X-Men here.

You are not responsible for what Bryan Fuller did. In anyway. Nor, for that matter, are his co-workers, who from what I can tell knew nothing about Fuller's actions. But the take home message is definitely: you are not in anyway connected to this. Don't think for a second that you are. And neither were your fandom friends.

However, it definitely sounds like you need a break from your fandom at the moment. Maybe from fandom in general. Read or watch something that has nothing to do with your previous fandom, and don't look for its fandom on the internet. Just enjoy it for what it is. Do something productive whenever you start thinking about your fandom, like going for a walk or cooking or painting your nails - whatever works. Talk to a friend about this if you feel comfortable. Definitely tell your therapist if you have one - and consider talking to one, or at least a counsellor, if you don't.

You are strong OP, and you deserve to take a break and take care of yourself. Things will get better, I promise. Take care.

(Anonymous) 2014-05-03 09:52 am (UTC)(link)
Bryan Singer.

(Anonymous) 2014-05-03 02:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Lucy, if this is you, people miss you and love you and hope you're ok.