[ SECRET POST #2678 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2678 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 069 secrets from Secret Submission Post #383.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - still not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Comments

[badass_tiger]

That was awesome, I think you've totally hit the nail on the head about this. If a secret maker wanted to feel better about their secrets, they're better off telling a therapist or a sympathetic friend. This is f!s. We have known resident trolls.

[forgottenjester]

Aw, thank you.

But, yeah, what you say is true. We have resident trolls. Heck, we have trolls who troll our resident trolls. Friends or therapists are generally nicer. *shrug*

[(Anonymous)]

Friends or therapists are generally nicer.

Yeah, I've actually been looking at getting a new therapist because she has actually shot me down every time I try to discuss my polyamory curiosity with her. She was very passive aggressive in her dismissal of the topic, to boot. That's just the latest therapist. I had another who had a breakdown of her own when her office burned down, and getting my antidepressants refilled was a royal bitch. So I'd disagree in some cases with at least half of that statement.

[forgottenjester]

There are bad eggs in every clutch. It's why I said, "generally".

[(Anonymous)]

I don't know. I've seen some comments that some may consider trolls to be easier to stomach than some of the stuff I've heard come from my therapists.

[forgottenjester]

So... you're saying all therapists are horrible people?

[(Anonymous)]

I'd say about 25-30% of them qualify for that descriptor, especially since the term "therapist" can include people who don't even have a Master's degree in a relevant field. The examples I previously stated had earned their doctorates and are licensed by the states in which they practice(d). If we broaden the scope to look at those who do not have doctorates, we're gonna come up with more examples (including plenty not technically accountable to the state or other regulatory agency that could at least reduce the number of dangerous/incompetent therapists out there.

[forgottenjester]

Soooo, 20-30% are bad eggs in your opinion. Okay, I can see where you're coming from.

Um, but I'm still not exactly sure how we disagree, exactly. I feel like we're talking past each other a bit. Because that fact doesn't contradict what I said so... um. Where are we? I'm sorry that I'm confused.

[(Anonymous)]

I was trying to say that I don't necessarily think that some of the commenters here are any worse than friends and shrinks. I think all parties can be equally judgmental and supportive. Your original comment suggested to me that friends and therapists are more inclined to be supportive, while my position is that from what I've observed/experienced that's not necessarily true. I also find that what many people would consider trolling I actually find myself agreeing on occasion.

[forgottenjester]

Ah, yes, okay then. I see where we are, thank you.

I suppose, for me, I believe that some people here are friends but most are strangers. I feel like the probability is that strangers have a higher likelihood of being unsympathetic to a secret than a friend or therapist. Now, this isn't always the case, as your examples clearly outline. I just think it's a higher likelihood.

So... I guess we'll have to agree to disagree. And I'm sorry about the shitty therapists you've run into. I hope you find someone better.