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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-05-09 07:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #2684 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2684 ⌋

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Re: "Fuck tha police"

[personal profile] seventh_seal 2014-05-09 11:52 pm (UTC)(link)
That's bad to hear about your friend, care to elaborate on what exactly happened? (Out of curiosity, feel free to ignore)

long post incoming

(Anonymous) 2014-05-10 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
Best friends since kindergarten. When I went off to college she stayed back home. She started playing WoW (as I did) but she mostly hung out on RP servers (which I hate).

So she got into a guild and became friends with some of them. Started talking to them out of WoW and meeting some of them IRL. Well, many of them were SJWs.

So she started posting SJW BS on tumblr and such. Talking about it all the time (I talk to her on FB) and getting upset over every little thing.

There were three big things that made her cut off all ties to me. The first was that she was mad I was not fighting with her. When we had debates about certain topics, we would both be really engaged. Well, after the SJW stuff she started getting more sensitive and offensive. Eventually, I just started giving up when we tried to debate stuff (I'd end with a terse "Okay." or "Fine.") because I did not want to get her more mad.

The second was (and I hope this doesn't out me) was that she posted this little thing about Lil' Cricket. Lil' Cricket is a crappy southern gas station (you know the type). Well, there used to be this jingle for Lil' Cricket that EVERYONE knew because it played on the radio over and over again (http://youtu.be/J3GcXBERbTM).

I reblogged her post and added the song's lyrics (because the song is funny). About 15 minutes later she messages me all, "You need to delete that post." I was confused but did so. She then tells me that one of her SJW friends told her that the Lil' Cricket was racist. I asked her why, and she said because cricket was a racial slur for black people and that the cricket logo is obviously black face.

Well, I looked around on the internet and found that yes, cricket was once a racial slur in like the 20s...in the Midwest. And the logo (to me) was always just a knock off Jiminy Cricket (hence the name Lil' Cricket). I also couldn't find ANYTHING supporting her statement and I told her that. She got all huffy so I just dropped as usual.

The third and final straw is something I don't even remember. She reblogged some post about Martin Freeman and I reblogged and added a comment (I don't remember what the post was about or what I said). She messages me on Tumblr pissed and told me to delete my reblog and "Why did I have to add anything to the conversation?"

Well, she then decided to tell me all about how she needed a safe place and that she didn't like that I gave up fighting with her and how terrible I acted/thought. She blocked me on Tumblr and has not spoken to me on FB since.

Re: long post incoming

(Anonymous) 2014-05-10 12:26 am (UTC)(link)
So she got mad at you for not wanting to argue with her? O__o
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Re: long post incoming

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2014-05-10 01:21 am (UTC)(link)
No, I get it, that was part of the relationship. They enjoyed their debates. Until they became stressful for OP and she didn't want to have what used to be a fun debate and was now a taxing actual argument
Edited 2014-05-10 01:21 (UTC)

Re: long post incoming

[personal profile] seventh_seal 2014-05-10 04:22 am (UTC)(link)
Good riddance to that friend - I mean what, she tries to control what you post on Tumblr?

But the process of her descent into the brainwashed state must've been terrible to watch - I don't know, maybe she'll bounce back? There are ex-Scientologists who are decent people and acknowledge they acted like total crazy dicks for a portion of their life ...