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⌈ Secret Post #2684 ⌋

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07. [WARNING for abuse/child abuse]

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YEP. Like, seriously, you have a good point and all, but I am just *done*, you know?

Let's be real, tumblr isn't, and will never be a "safe place" unless you password protect your blog. BUT. That doesn't mean you have to be an asshole.

Yeah. Also for me it's like...idk...I do kinda like it and while I believe people have their own opinions, it does get tiring seeing something you like bagged on for the fiftieth time. Like I enjoyed the Divergent books before there was a movie and seeing all the "omg the book is so TERRIBLE" just made me feel a bit sad about what that meant about me. Maybe I'm just oversensitive though.

That's true. I can't stand when people use "MUH SAFE SPACE" as an excuse to attack everyone who doesn't agree with them especially when they don't have any regard for others and their blogs. Also I can't stand the "I hate all ____" sorts and the people who's attitude is basically "fuck you" to everyone.

I hate how that kind of super "hostile to everyone" attitude is glamorized on some parts tumblr and the "OMG I DON'T EXIST TO MAKE YOU COMFORTABLE OMG!11" mindset. Especially when "I don't exist to make you comfortable" suddenly turns into "Please censor all these words and trigger warn for this this and everything else" Just...urgh. It just screams "it's all about ME ME ME ME MEMEEEEEE" Also the attitude of "i'm going to treat all of y'all like UTTER SHIT until you prove your worth" is not a very practical attitude for the real world (or anywhere).

It's like they don't get that there's a HUGE difference between 'not compromising yourself for the comfort and expectations of others' and being a huge self centered diva who feels entitled to treat people like shit and get treated like a princess in return. The first is okay and even healthy and the other is well...unproductive , unhealthy, unpleasant and obnoxious.

Sorry for the huge rant on tumblr. I hope I don't sound like a jerk here.

Nah, you sound fine. :) Tumblr's attitudes tend to be pretty toxic at times, and it's really really frustrating. If you ever need/want to rant, I totally don't mind listening, either here, or on tumblr itself- for, as toxic as parts are, I still have made some pretty good friends there, and they're worth it.

*nod*
Thanks.

They can be.

Luckily I had it pretty easy when I started out because I just joined it to hang out with my RP friends. I expanded my friends group and been careful about who I follow and had a pretty good time.

Also my RP friendgroup is pretty cool and they are rational about social justice and know when to call bullshit to things.

I could never leave tumblr because I have so much on my tumblr and so much work put into my personal.

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