[ SECRET POST #2686 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2686 ⌋

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Comments

[diet_poison]

The right not to have kids and the right to have kids are actually fundamentally pretty different imo. Though at the core they both rely on the same basic principle: once a kid enters someone's life, they become a huge priority, and that kid has a RIGHT to be in a situation where s/he isn't experiencing abuse, neglect, starvation, etc.

That's how I look at it, anyway. People have the right to decide whether they can take on that responsibility, but they don't have the right to be in possession of a being that is suffering negative consequences just because they wanted it to exist for them (I mean severe negative consequences, not mild ones). In fact providing access to contraception is an important tool in making sure people don't have kids before they are ready to do so.

To sum up my thoughts in another way: having kids is ABOUT THE KIDS, not about the parents. If you just want a kid for yourself, to live vicariously through or to make you feel validated or for whatever reason, in MY OPINION you are having a kid for the wrong reasons and kids deserve to be had for the right reasons.

[diet_poison]

We don't disagree on that.