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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-05-11 03:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #2686 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2686 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-05-12 04:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh gosh, yes... the whole 'prep for hours' thing always kills me. Now, that's not to say I don't enjoy reading it sometimes (because, fingering = kink I like to read about) - but when it's implied that things are going to be all 'wrecked' and horribad if you're not super, extra, uber careful about prepping for ages and with like every single finger on both hands before a dick even gets anywhere near that hole! Um... Blargh.

Not to say that it can't hurt or it can't be damaging if you just jam a dick in there... but not everyone needs elaborate prep. (Now, if they skip the lube on the other hand... then I'd have concerns. Kind of worries me that I will still occasionally come across fic where people seem to think that anuses are self-lubricating...)

I got into a bit of a debate on fanficrants ages ago on this topic. Someone actually believed that you absolutely 100% of the time had to do the 1 finger, 2 finger, 3 finger, dick or else ... I dunno. Dire consequences.

They did not believe me when I said that my first time experiencing anal basically involved me, a guy, copious amount of lube... and just shoving it in there. There were no fingers, no elaborate prep. It was a bit uncomfortable, kinda pinchy and stretchy, and totally weird - but the world didn't end! Granted, we were young and dumb and nowadays, I'm likely to ask for the fingers just because I enjoy them... But still.