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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-05-18 03:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #2693 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2693 ⌋

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ayrt

(Anonymous) 2014-05-18 08:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Rewards work just as well (or however your guardians handled your behavior). Obviously it differs from child to child.

But yes, don't use your illness as an excuse to be an asshole. Especially if you go, "Oh I can't help myself I have autism!"

Re: ayrt

(Anonymous) 2014-05-18 08:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Rewards didn't work with me either. Luckily for my parents I was kind of a pretentious child that found other children's misbehavior appalling, and my oddities (like carrying a watering can to bed like a plushie) were harmless. Mostly people tried to punish me when I was scared and I didn't want to do something and they failed in forcing me, so they took away my stuff and locked me up. (Those people were professionals.)

One care worker always compared me to another aspie boy at our group, saying he can't believe I'm not mean and rude like that boy, wondering if I was autistic after all. Yeah, uhm, no. Just because that boy liked to use his diagnosis as an excuse, too, it pretty much got autism a bad rep.