[ SECRET POST #2693 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2693 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Chris-Chan is an autistic guy who 'created' a character named 'Sonichu' (combo of Sonic the Hedgehog and Pikachu). He creates a really bad comic about the adventures of Sonichu and Rosechu. He used to wear this Sonichu medallion thing around his neck constantly. May also have had bad hygiene?

There was something about the dean of his college becoming a villain in the comic after he got told that he couldn't try to pick up women at the college using poster-signs because it was creeping people out. That's a huge goal in his life, the acquisition of a girlfriend (something something without a boyfriend? Boyfriendless girl? I don't know. How do I even know all this in the first place. WHY do I know this. Ugh).

He's also tremendously homophobic. The combination of all of this made him a prime target for 4Chan to laugh at, which further made Chris-Chan freak out, which spurred them on.

[diet_poison]

He sounded pretty harmless until you got to the second paragraph. Then it became a bit DNW.

I'm a bit like this with mentally ill people - most of the time, I can handle it with tact, see past it, accomodate it, etc., but as soon as it's a dude who starts being creepy towards women/trying to hit on me*, I just want to back the fuck away and let someone else deal with it.

Of course, I'm like that with all creepers. But I think maybe it's amplified when I feel they don't have a lot of social understanding and might view the world, including women, in a bizarre way - it just causes my self-preservation and avoidance to kick in hard.

*if it were just a dude flirting it wouldn't be that big of a deal but it tends to be in a context where I barely know them and the flirting is more like "oh available single girl, want to acquire"...which sounds a lot like Chris-Chan.

[(Anonymous)]

He also hates people with Aspergers, made a video mocking a mentally retarded girl who was probably the only genuine fan of his comics ever, drew pornography of his nonconsenting friend and elderly college dean (to punish her for telling him not to solicit for a girlfriend on campus), threatens to kill women (including saying that a guy's girlfriend should be murdered because he didn't like the guy), and does indeed think women owe him sex (if they just want to be friends it's an "excuse" to "get out of" sex).

Chris is really something.

[diet_poison]

holy shit.

[jaybie_jarrett]

Yeah that pisses me off big time. Especially his claim that people with Aspergers are faking it. AS has NEVER gotten me anything but teasing and difficulty. I don't know why I would fake it , I don't want attention that badly, at least not for that.

[(Anonymous)]

It's mostly that he thinks people with Asperger's are "taking attention away" from other autistics (read: him) and he refuses to accept that it's a form of autism because that means someone who is not him is getting more sympathy for having a similar condition.

[jaybie_jarrett]

So basically "It's All About Me" ?

[(Anonymous)]

Yep.

[icecheetah]

Right. I have heard of Sonichu but I didn't really pay much attention to it because I have more fun things to be distracted by.

And just... wow... to that behavior...

[(Anonymous)]

I feel the need to add something - yes, Chris-Chan is a big pile of Do Not Want. Yes he's creepy and obnoxious and harasses women. But I feel sorry for the guy - his home life is apparently such a mess that he never had a chance. His parents are racists, his church was pretty intolerant, his house is so hoarded that it's barely usable (allegedly it caught fire from someone using a coffee maker). And for all the people who have told him that the signs, the throwing things at women, the stalking, the creepy porn are NOT the way to find companionship, I wonder if anyone's helped him work out how to meet people in non-harassing scenarios? The guy was mainstreamed in school, and central/southern VA public schools kinda suck - I wonder how much supplemental help he's actually received?

I'd expect the average 30-year-old guy to be able to work past all this crap from his childhood, but I have no idea whether Chris is capable of doing this. I know very little about autism, and can't speak to how much of his weirdness is his own vs. how much is crap piled onto him from other sources, but I see Chris as an example of how social services fails people, as much as an example of a weirdo on the Internet.

[(Anonymous)]

His parents have refused to accept help for Chris since pretty much day one. They had him mainstreamed so they could pretend he was completely normal. Granted, any help he would've gotten in school might not have been great, for the reasons you mentioned, but it was lazy, permissive parenting. They were already pretty old when he was born but that's really not an excuse.

Yeah, it's pretty sad.

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, cos social services can spend 1:1 time with everyone with a disability helping them for years on end (which is what it takes to assist a person with ASD to practice social skills).

No, they can't.

Er, parents? Friends? Neighbours?

/a social worker fed up with totally unrealistic expectations. We do not have magic wands or two clients each.

[thistlechaser]

I'd expect the average 30-year-old guy to be able to work past all this crap from his childhood,

I'm a lot older than 30 and have a hard time dealing with crap from childhood. I always think that, too. "It's from childhood! So long ago! You should be over this!", but it's not that easy.

I don't know the guy, I'm not trying to defend him, just wanted to mention that.