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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-05-18 03:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #2693 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2693 ⌋

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Re: Not sure if this is agreeing or disagreeing

[personal profile] levy 2014-05-18 10:34 pm (UTC)(link)
I feel like I just read a complete description of my little cousin, he has ADHD (Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder) and all of the things you listed matches with his behaviour. It's very frustrating, just like you said :/ he would lie blatantly and then cry for forgiveness, be forgiven and started laughing and lying again.

What his grandmother did to atone a lot ot his hyperactivity was to be VERY patient (he would start screaming and she would ignore him, then talk quietly with him about how he shouldn't be like this and ask him to help her with the chores, which he liked to since he always wants to do something), but then she is his grandmother and loved him to death, so it's understandable her compromise. My cousin had also many tutors for school, but he would start kicking them or throwing them things, so yeah :/ I understand you would get mad at him. I get mad with my own cousin a lot of times too.

The only thing that helps on those cases is to talk with the parents and tell them the boy needs counseling. In my cousin's case he also needs medication, but counseling it's the best and a lot of compromise to help them by being really patient.