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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-05-18 03:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #2693 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2693 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-05-18 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
I wonder how you'd feel if your parents had the courage to actually hurt you directly.

(Anonymous) 2014-05-19 02:57 am (UTC)(link)
NAYRT

Okay, I'm not autistic, but my pain tolerance as a child made corporal punishment a joke. I could handle 24 hours of toothache without complaining. And I was very well behaved because I liked spending time with old people and adults in general. Just - people who tried to control me with pain probably would have had to break bones to get a fear response from me. Hurting kids is not some sort of silver bullet.

And what a lot of people seem to not understand is that if it doesn't work, it isn't a piddly "well, no harm done, we'll try something else" discipline situation. You physically assaulted them. Speaking from personal experience, a child who isn't cowed by that will regard you as abusive. It does permanent damage to the relationship.

(Anonymous) 2014-05-19 11:18 am (UTC)(link)
The phrasing of this is...disconcerting.

I hope you don't and never have kids, because something tells me you wouldn't be able to spank responsibly.