[ SECRET POST #2707 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2707 ⌋

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Comments

Re: weirdest things you've found out about friends

[hands4healing]

Oh, yeah, they knew. All of them may not have known each other personally, but he was known for having tons of kids (and not providing for them, and I wish I could say I was lying, but I heard it regularly, each one thought that she - and her child(ren) - would be the One he'd stay with. Even worse, this was a common mentality, and when I'd ask, "What makes you think he'd stay with you and this child when he didn't stay with the other Nth women/kids?" they'd all give me doe eyes and say that he looooooved them, and surely he'd stay and, then when he didn't, WHY DIDN'T HE).

Re: weirdest things you've found out about friends

[(Anonymous)]

Common thing abusive men convince inexperienced (and sometimes experienced) women with, sadly...

Re: weirdest things you've found out about friends

[diet_poison]

That...what...wow. Talk about naive. That's kind of painful. D:

Re: weirdest things you've found out about friends

[quirkytizzy]

Naive, but also possibly that they are conditioned through previous abuse to accept that kind of man. This obviously isn't the case with all those poor women, but it is an influence that affects many people who continually find themselves in those relationships. It's not an excuse, because as an adult it is their obligation to work on not getting into those relationships, but it is often a factor.

Re: weirdest things you've found out about friends

[diet_poison]

Yes, this is a good point. Thank you for bringing this up, and I shouldn't have been so sweepingly judgmental in my comment.

Re: weirdest things you've found out about friends

[quirkytizzy]

Oh I didn't think you were being judgmental. I sometimes think naive, too. It's just easy to sorta glance over the issue is all. I do sometimes, too, and I have been that woman who kept going back to a bad relationship. It's okay.

Re: weirdest things you've found out about friends

[diet_poison]

Thank you. :) I hope you're having better luck with relationships now too.

Re: weirdest things you've found out about friends

[hands4healing]

Yeeeeeup. I heard it regularly from my client list, believe me.