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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-06-02 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #2708 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2708 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Degrassi Junior High/Degrassi High and Saved By The Bell]


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03.
[The Cinema Snob]

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04.
[Phil Robertson from Duck Dynasty]


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05.
[Silicon Valley]


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[Xavier Dolan]


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07.
[Pacific Rim]


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[Sailor Moon]


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[Iwan Rheon]


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10.
[Love Stage!!]


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11.
[The Losers (movie)]


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12.
[K-pop]










Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 052 secrets from Secret Submission Post #387.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - posted twice ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2014-06-03 02:02 am (UTC)(link)
Fantasies usually have some connection to reality. For example, when someone has a rape fantasy, it doesn't necessarily mean that they want to be raped -- it does, however, tend to mean that they have difficulty letting go sexually. Many women who grew up in repressive, patriarchal settings can only experience pleasure during sex when they pretend that they are being raped, because the notion that it's wrong for them to actually want it and be an active participant is so deeply ingrained.

Sexual fantasy is distinct from sexual and romantic attraction. The two stem from different sources. For instance, my fantasies involve extreme control, but I am not at all attracted to controlling men. Attraction comes from a very different place, and all of the evidence we have suggests that it is innate.

The trouble is that you won't buy biological explanations, because you don't like the idea that anything we do is connected to our biology. But here's the problem: if we were made, then we were made with bodies. We were made with our biology. Why would we be destined to reject that part of creation?