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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-06-02 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #2708 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2708 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Degrassi Junior High/Degrassi High and Saved By The Bell]


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[The Cinema Snob]

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[Phil Robertson from Duck Dynasty]


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05.
[Silicon Valley]


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[Xavier Dolan]


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[Pacific Rim]


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[Sailor Moon]


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[Iwan Rheon]


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10.
[Love Stage!!]


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11.
[The Losers (movie)]


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[K-pop]










Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 052 secrets from Secret Submission Post #387.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - posted twice ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2014-06-03 05:43 am (UTC)(link)
Whether they are or are not then they HAVE still chosen<

How are people not getting that being attracted to the same sex and acting on that attraction ARE TWO COMPLETELY DIFFERENT THINGS? OP of this thread is saying that sexuality is a choice but its not. I didn't choose to feel attraction to women, I can't decide to suddenly find men attractive. It doesn't work that way. I have a friend who is attracted to men but chooses to date women whom he feels no attraction for because of the backwards fucked up beliefs of his parents. He is miserable, he hates his life and I honestly don't think he'll make it to 30 if he continues down this path because it's killing him. YES he is excercising his "free will" by choosing to date women for the sake of his parents but to imply that he has any choice in the matter of not feeling any attraction for them is insulting and ridiculous.

You have a choice on whether or not you actively live your life being true to yourself but that doesn't erase what you feel in the first place. I think maybe as a bisexual you are getting confused because you are attracted to both you obviously have the option to pursue a relationship with either gender and can therefore choose to be in a hetero relationship. The point it though you still are attracted to both genders and you can't choose to turn that off. You don't choose who you're attracted to. If they did OP could decide to be gay for a month, decide to be attracted to the same sex.

(Anonymous) 2014-06-04 09:06 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you for addressing this. It seems like so many people these days don't recognise this :/