[ SECRET POST #2708 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2708 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Degrassi Junior High/Degrassi High and Saved By The Bell]


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03.
[The Cinema Snob]

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04.
[Phil Robertson from Duck Dynasty]


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05.
[Silicon Valley]


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06.
[Xavier Dolan]


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07.
[Pacific Rim]


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08.
[Sailor Moon]


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09.
[Iwan Rheon]


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10.
[Love Stage!!]


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11.
[The Losers (movie)]


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12.
[K-pop]










Notes:

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Comments

[diet_poison]

because that's not what I'm looking for, not what I need, nor even really want, right now, so that's not what occurs to me at all when I interact with the opposite sex.

Sounds like you're just not that interested right now, which is quite fair.

Which, at this point in my life, is not there by my choice. I.e., I am not looking for a relationship right now, which is my choice, and this choice informs my choice that I not size up members of the opposite sex as potential relationship material, so I approach them from a neutral standpoint.

It's great that you are able to rationally approach people the way you want to without feeling anything. It's also not that common. I'm not really looking for a relationship right now either, but if a guy looks cute to me I'm going to notice it. Doesn't mean I'm going to act or even mentally dwell on it, but I'll see it whether I want to or not. And from what I gather from talking to others this is a more common way of processing attraction.

In theory, I refer you back to the reference to Ezekiel. The God I believe in and trust in would allow, maybe even expect, me to argue about it. So, the reference is really not beside the point, as it illustrates my perspective.

This whole response is basically you saying "I don't want to answer the question you asked me, so I'll just give you a reason why I shouldn't have to". It's avoidance, though. I have a hard time taking your "attraction is a choice" seriously if you won't answer this fundamental question about the way you approach attraction.

And honestly, your whole comment gives me a vibe of "I'm straight and I've never had to struggle with this, and it's easier for me to just assume I'm doing it right and there's something wrong with teh gayz than wonder if some people are just naturally different". People don't just up and decide to be gay ffs.