[ SECRET POST #2709 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2709 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Comments

old OP

[(Anonymous)]

So a while ago I submitted this (http://fandomsecrets.dreamwidth.org/997982.html?thread=741399390#cmt741399390) secret. I haven't really been active in fandom or tumblr since then. The problem is that I still miss reading that person's blog, almost like I miss talking to a real person. It's pretty ridiculous, which is why I cut myself off in the first place. Whenever I'm reminded of fandom, I'm reminded of them. Right now I want to go to their blog and/or send them a little fandomy anon message. Advice? Am I obsessive and creepy, or just pathetic?

Re: old OP

[(Anonymous)]

It is late and I need to get some sleep, so I am going to be brusque. I've tortured myself over similarly ridiculous online non-interactions, so here's my recommendation:

1. Assume your first message was eaten by tumblr or relevant messaging service.
2. Reassure yourself that this person has not rejected you. Resume the activities you enjoy.
3. There's no reason you shouldn't send them a message, it's not like they asked you not to. But I would suggest not doing so if a response/lack of response would upset you more.

This is just first aid, to make things a little more livable. It sounds like you know this level of preoccupation isn't healthy. Seek help?