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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-06-06 07:10 pm

[ SECRET POST #2712 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2712 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.
[Hemlock Grove]


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02.
[The Walking Dead Game/Toy Story 3/etc]


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03.
[Long Live the Queen]


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04. [repeat]


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05.
[Rupaul's Drag Race]


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06.
[Dr Who - An Adventure in Space and Time]


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07. http://i.imgur.com/TEcm28n.gif
[moving gif]


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08.
[Conchita Wurst, Daniel Gildenlow]


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09.
[petals on the wind]


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10.
[Until the Full Moon]


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11.
(Homestuck, John/Jade)


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12.
[Once Upon a Time]


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13.
[Homestuck]


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14. [WARNING for rape]



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15. [WARNING for suicide]



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16. [WARNING for abuse?]



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17. [WARNING for suicide]





















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #387.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Does it weird you out when people are nice to you?

(Anonymous) 2014-06-07 12:18 am (UTC)(link)
I have problems recognising when people are being nice. Actually, I've problems recognising when they're being mean, too, to the extent that several times in both my school and work careers I've had teachers/friends/co-workers take me aside and gently explain that so-and-so is bullying/taking advantage of me. I'm actually not sure to what extent I've believed them, since I'm not sure how much it counts as bullying if you don't actually notice it? But apparently it's happened.

I just tend to take every action at face value. I sort of go through life assuming that every action pointed at me is the result of people's whimsy, and take them all at face value. I know they're probably not, that there's some other motivation going on behind many of them, but figuring out which motivation is attached to which person and which action is just so much effort that I don't bother, take the face value, and if they want something more than that then they can either explain it later in actual words or resign themselves to not getting it.

At face value, an awful lot of people are really nice. Of course, given that I apparently didn't notice face value meanness, it's possible that my standards are more than a little skewed. But so long as I can reasonably give what's being asked of me, I'm usually okay with it, and if I can't give it then I won't. So most interactions with people turn out fine. At least for me.

I don't know? If it was me, I'd take it just as him being nice, and if it turns out it's not and he wants something more, then he should have said so. Since he didn't, it's not your obligation to do anything about it.