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I'm curious about what the ratio is like of fandomites.

It depends who I'm with, sort of. I was more the dominant party in my last relationship, now we're more equally matched.

I'm an active participant who prefers other active participants.

So, vanilla? Dom/sub doesn't necessarily map to active/passive.

Vanilla.

Submissive, I'd say.

i like to lie back and enjoy the foreplay, but when it gets serious i prefer to be on top. and i'd rather tie someone up than let them tie me up.

I've never actually had sex, but I've always figured I'd switch. I like both sides of the coin and the yummy candy center of it. Theoretically.

I'm only dominant when the mood strikes me.

If I wasn't dominant, I'd never have sex. My SO is largely uninterested, so if I don't make the first move, nothing happens.

Where do you draw these lines?

I feel like this depends on the relationship I'm in. I might end up "submissive" because I think a certain person being dominant is hot, and then pushy with someone else.

I'm not actively into BDSM or anything, but definitely more on the dominant side of things.

Not in a relationship, but I definitely feel like I prefer being more dominant, and am more attracted to people who are more submissive.

I never understood those labels, to be honest. I mean, intellectually I know what they mean, but it never worked along those lines with any of my partners /shrugs

Yeah, I don't find that concept sexy, whether IRL or in fiction. I want to be evenly matched and have the action be mutual.

Very much dominant by preference, but also sometimes lazy. I'll sometimes agree to switch it up if my partner wants to, but I don't get as much out of playing the sub.

Switch

I'm not into D/s or anything like that, but I'm definitely sub. I want to be fucked, damn it.

never had sex, but I see myself as inclined to be a switch. But the idea of being at the extreme of the sub end makes me uncomfortable, and my first inclination was to say "dominant" because I'm more dominant personality-wise. I guess the answer is: I don't know yet. lol I feel like my ideal sexual relationship would involve a lot of switching though, and a lot of trying new things.

My kingdom for a partner who likes to top as much as they like to bottom.

I get bored just doing one or the other, but lately it seems like every single time I get into bed with someone they're looking for me to be the one calling the shots.

Usually sleepy.

Either/or. Depends on the mood.

Switch, but not with the same partner. I'll be dominant with one partner, submissive with the next, etc. Sitting on a sore butt right now, in fact.

Definitely more dom. The last time I had sex with someone, he was on top for all of about five minutes. Not that he was unsatisfying in anyway, that's just how it wound up every time after. He made some comment about it, and I hadn't even noticed until then. I think I might just be used to being on top with a strap-on, when I'm with a gal, and it felt natural to be on top.

It kind of takes a lot for me to go sub for someone. They have to have a really strong personality, but I love getting pushed around a little, when they're in The Mood.

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