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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-06-12 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2718 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2718 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-06-12 11:02 pm (UTC)(link)
You spend more time online when you're depressed or you get depressed when you spend too much time online? Either way, I get it. I tend to spend a lot of time online when I'm depressed and, sometimes, being online depresses me.
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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2014-06-12 11:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Are you using it as a coping mechanism, or does visiting those sites make it worse?
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[personal profile] silverr 2014-06-12 11:15 pm (UTC)(link)
awww, Cakewrecks!

(Anonymous) 2014-06-12 11:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Right there with you, OP. For me, depression is about not feeling anything, and immersing yourself in the ocean of quick-hit mini-dopamine blandness that sites like these provide is a GREAT way to avoid feeling anything.
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+1

[personal profile] grausam 2014-06-13 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
quick-hit mini-dopamine blandness is the perfect term for this, argh
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Xanga is still a thing?!?

[personal profile] fingalsanteater 2014-06-12 11:19 pm (UTC)(link)
I met my SO on Xanga.

I stopped following a lot of sites (almost all of them), and I'm more depressed than I used to be, I think. (Or maybe more aware of it?) Like, I don't even want to read timewaster shit when I'm depressed. Or... actually, tumblr is the ultimate timewaster so maybe I just shifted my attentions to a bigger timewaster.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-06-12 11:25 pm (UTC)(link)
NAR and NAW are excellent sites. I pretty much view them daily.

I don't recognize any of the others except When Parents Text, which I think is a DYAC sub-blog? I haven't been there in ages though.

Anyway, I'd also be interested in knowing if the sites make your depression worse, or if you just tend to go there when you're already depressed for whatever reason.

[personal profile] solticisekf 2014-06-12 11:26 pm (UTC)(link)
Aww, OP, I hope it's a temporary phase! At least you don't watch TV the whole day. Studies have shown that it's the single most unsatisfying pastime. ;)
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[personal profile] a_potato 2014-06-12 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry you've been feeling depressed, OP. I hope that things look up for you soon.
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[personal profile] silvereriena 2014-06-13 12:20 am (UTC)(link)
Do you go to UBC, OP?

(Anonymous) 2014-06-13 02:15 am (UTC)(link)
I'm much the same way (and oh LORDY those Not Always sites are addictive!) though I tend to recognize it as a symptom of worsening depression and take action accordingly.

[personal profile] solticisekf 2014-06-13 12:38 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm intrigued what kind of action.)

(Anonymous) 2014-06-13 02:38 am (UTC)(link)
I remember having a xanga back in the day. Ah, memories!

(Anonymous) 2014-06-13 06:08 am (UTC)(link)
Me too, OP. It's the best coping mechanism I know.