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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-06-13 06:29 pm

[ SECRET POST #2719 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2719 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Jared Leto, Doctor Strange]


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03.
[WarioWare, Inc.: Mega Microgame$]


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04.
[Star Trek: The Next Generation]


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05.
[Odd Thomas]


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06.
[Murdoch Mysteries]


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07. http://i.imgur.com/4VlZYj4.png
[porny, illustrated]


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08.
[Big Time Rush]


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09. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]



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10. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]



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11. [SPOILERS for OUaT]



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12. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]
http://i.imgur.com/U7UnmUI.png
[gore]


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13. [WARNING for abuse]

[Lie to Me]


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14. [WARNING for dub-con/non-con/etc]



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15. [WARNING for suicide]

[Rick and Morty]






























Notes:

Might be ANOTHER 12 am day. Response time will again be slow, sorry.

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(Anonymous) 2014-06-14 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
Guess for every abuser there is someone waiting to be abused. Sad.

(Anonymous) 2014-06-14 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
This is news to you?

(Anonymous) 2014-06-14 02:06 am (UTC)(link)
Did you not know this? How do you think abusers stay in business?

(Anonymous) 2014-06-14 06:44 am (UTC)(link)
NAYRT

Ana Mardoll put this a lot more succinctly than I could, so I'm going to quote her and provide a link to her longer explanation of why abusive fantasy characters actually attract people.

"I have never heard anyone seriously speculate that the popularity of femme fatales in fiction means that all men secretly yearn for an abusive relationship; yet [...] I have heard the meme that all girls wish to be abused more times than I can count. This is a failure of understanding the difference between fantasy and reality, and it is a "failure" that conveniently props up existing misogynistic narratives about how women who stay with abusers stay because they secretly want to be abused rather than because they are groomed (by both their abuser and the larger society) to stay with their abuser, and because society does not empower them to leave. This is a comforting lie we tell ourselves because it's easier to blame abuse victims than acknowledge that we are failing them."

Longer Twilight-based discussion of abusive romance here (http://www.anamardoll.com/2013/06/twilight-abuse-and-attention.html?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed:%20AnaMardollsRamblings%20(Ana%20Mardoll's%20Ramblings))