[ SECRET POST #2719 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2719 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Jared Leto, Doctor Strange]


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03.
[WarioWare, Inc.: Mega Microgame$]


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04.
[Star Trek: The Next Generation]


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05.
[Odd Thomas]


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06.
[Murdoch Mysteries]


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07. http://i.imgur.com/4VlZYj4.png
[porny, illustrated]


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08.
[Big Time Rush]


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09. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]



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10. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]



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11. [SPOILERS for OUaT]



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12. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]
http://i.imgur.com/U7UnmUI.png
[gore]


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13. [WARNING for abuse]

[Lie to Me]


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14. [WARNING for dub-con/non-con/etc]



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15. [WARNING for suicide]

[Rick and Morty]






























Notes:

Might be ANOTHER 12 am day. Response time will again be slow, sorry.

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Then don't call it rape fantasy. The moment you give enthusiastic consent to something, it cannot be rape, by definition.

I think the wording is important. "But women have rape fantasies!" is used as an excuse by way too many scummy people, and even to non-scummy individuals, it cements the idea that sometimes rape is ok, because it's not like society at large views rape as seriously as it should. And I really don't get why ppl fight so hard to keep such a nasty term on for their kink.

[kallanda_lee]

But you're conflating two things, anon.

One of the characters could have a rape fantasy, in which case it is indeed consensual.

But it's also possible the writer/reader has a rape fantasy, one that centers around certain characters and not themselves, in which case it is possible they are reading/writing noncon in fanfiction.

Which is exactly why the noncon labeling exists.

[(Anonymous)]

I thought other anon was talking about irl roleplay, in which case I don't condone calling it rape fantasy. Considering that that's what most people who aren't in fandom will learn about, I think it's important to be concious of the wording. It's also probably more convenient to call it something else rather than "Rape Fantasy*" followed by a long list that specifies it's not actually rape.

People are way too willing to swipe their responsibility under the rug, even when writing fic, though.

[chardmonster]

It's also probably more convenient to call it something else rather than "Rape Fantasy*" followed by a long list that specifies it's not actually rape.

This doesn't sound convenient at all!

[(Anonymous)]

That's why it's called rape fantasy. People who engage in it KNOW it's not rape. That's not the point. The point is putting yourself in someone else's hands and experiencing that loss of control while at the same time knowing you can stop it at any time with the right safe word.

It's still a fantasy about rape even if realistically the participants know that it's not remotely the same as real actual rape.

Wording is important, and that's why it's stressed that it's a fantasy. Some women do have rape fantasies. So do some men. Some men and women find the very idea of being so out of control abhorrent. There's nothing wrong with either end of that spectrum, and I just think how society views the severity of rape (which we agree is not as seriously as it should, whether it's males or females being raped) isn't as heavily tied to fictional portrayals of rape in fiction as people think it is.

I think it's more a matter of making sure people are educated about how something existing in a novel or movie or a game, whatever, isn't necessarily something the creator is advocating or saying is okay. Obviously entertainment doesn't exist in a vacuum, but there's also a certain degree of separation between fiction and reality that is very obvious to all except the few that have fiction/reality perception boundaries to begin with.

[littlestbirds]

It seems like a good portion of this thread thinks euphemisms when discussing rape fantasies are unacceptable, though. And I don't know how clearly you can draw the line between the experience of a character you identify with being raped in-story and you arranging a fantasy role play with your partner? Though as someone who doesn't do either I can't be sure.