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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-06-16 07:28 pm

[ SECRET POST #2722 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2722 ⌋

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philstar22: (Default)

Re: This is rape culture

[personal profile] philstar22 2014-06-17 12:04 am (UTC)(link)
Well, yes, but there is a way you can say that without being rude and dismissive to someone who is clearly traumatized. You certainly aren't going to make the situation better or make her more likely able to give you the address by being an ass.

Re: This is rape culture

(Anonymous) 2014-06-17 12:05 am (UTC)(link)
The dispatcher could have done it better, yes, but the article is not making that distinction. The article is putting them on blast for doing their job.

Re: This is rape culture

(Anonymous) 2014-06-17 12:07 am (UTC)(link)
True, but these people probably gets calls like this several times a day. It's hard to be sensitive and thoughtful every single time. It's like wanting ER nurses to be horrified and distraught every time a horribly injured person comes in. Nope. Sorry.
republicanism: (Default)

Re: This is rape culture

[personal profile] republicanism 2014-06-17 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
yeah, i was thinking the same thing. it's easy to fault the dispatcher for being so cold, but shit, i don't know how you could survive a job like this without emotionally distancing yourself from the situation.
ill_omened: (Default)

Re: This is rape culture

[personal profile] ill_omened 2014-06-17 12:09 am (UTC)(link)
IIRC at least historically 'verbal slaps' were taught because it gets people to actually listen to what you're saying and jolts them into focus in a way that being completely accommodating doesn't.