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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-06-16 07:28 pm

[ SECRET POST #2722 ]


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Re: Confession thread

(Anonymous) 2014-06-17 12:42 am (UTC)(link)
It's the same friend. I've actually told them that I'm not looking for a relationship right now, but that's about as direct as I've been about this situation. I want to deal with this properly, but at the same I'm scared to. Because either I've been completely wrong about the situation and things get really awkward, or I was totally right and things still get really awkward.
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Re: Confession thread

[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-06-17 02:29 am (UTC)(link)
It's probably better to be a little more direct, but I possibly only say that because I've been on the other side of a situation like that and felt I was getting mixed signals (even though at one point he said something very similar)...so that may have more to do with the person who I was in that situation with. IDK. I hope you guys are able to clear the air without added awkwardness.

Re: Confession thread

(Anonymous) 2014-06-17 04:02 am (UTC)(link)
AYRT

No, you definitely have a point. I don't want to lead my friend on, because I wouldn't want to date them even if I did have my own feelings figured out. And I wouldn't blame my friend for thinking that I was sending mixed signals, because it took me a few weeks to figure out what was going on, and after that I couldn't do much else besides go "ah, fuck. Probably shouldn't have flirted right back at them".

Being more direct about things would help, because the longer this drags on, the more awkward it's going to get. And while I have a feeling that it's not going to be pretty, talking about it is the right choice. Sigh. Doesn't mean that I have to look forward to it, right?
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Re: Confession thread

[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-06-17 04:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Best of luck, and I hope it works out in the best way possible for all parties involved. And no, it's not fun to talk about awkward things with friends. :/