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⌈ Secret Post #2725 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Advice thread

[(Anonymous)]

I don't want to go into too much detail about it in this thread, for various reasons, but are there general (I know every person is different, but still)...guidelines, hints, etc. on how to tell if a person may be romantically interested in you, like how to tell the difference between them being friendly and being interested. For me it has a lot to do with not making a fool of myself by misreading signals, that's why I ask.

Re: Advice thread

[(Anonymous)]

In my experience: not really. I've known people who gave off what felt like really flirty signals to me but that's just how they acted, they weren't actually interested. And I've known people who are interested but just don't know how to flirt. The only way to get a definite answer is to ask the person, unfortunately.

Re: Advice thread

[(Anonymous)]

you have to ask them tbh

Re: Advice thread

[(Anonymous)]

Not really. It's so easy to misread. There have been times where I've thought I was being perfectly friendly and got misread as flirty, and I'll poll my friends and half of them will say I was totally being flirty, and the other half will agree that I was only being friendly. But when I do get misread, I'll just clear up the confusion and try not to make an issue because I understand how difficult it is. And if whoever you're wondering about is a good person, they'll do the same.

Re: Advice thread

[(Anonymous)]

Sure, but they'll either be so general as to have limited use in the real world, or just plain bullshit. All bets are off when it comes to applying "guidelines" to an individual person. You just have to spend time with them and get up the courage to ask.

Re: Advice thread

[(Anonymous)]

You have to risk making a fool of yourself by asking them directly. "Signals" are about as reliable as horoscopes. You just gotta close your eyes and jump.