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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-06-20 07:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #2726 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2726 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Naruto]


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[Transformers: Prime]


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05. http://i.imgur.com/dkPX9Ym.gif
[moving .gif, Steven Ogg, Grand Theft Auto V]


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07. [SPOILERS for Murder in the First]



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08. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]



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09. [WARNING for rape]



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10. [WARNING for rape]



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11. [WARNING for rape, abuse, etc]



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12. [WARNING for rape, abuse, pedophilia, incest, ironically enough none of which OP warned for]



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13. [WARNING for eating disorders]



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14. [WARNING for suicide]



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15. [WARNING for sexual abuse]



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Notes:

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Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - ships it ].
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(Anonymous) 2014-06-21 03:31 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt

I agree with you. My problem is with the idea that, if you've been drinking, then you can't consent.

(Anonymous) 2014-06-21 03:35 am (UTC)(link)
Then you should have said that instead of comparing it to being a violent drunk because someone who is a violent drunk victimizes others. It's not at all comparable, not considered comparable, and not something you can use to argue your point.

As for your statement there, it's too broad to agree or disagree with. Drinking what, and how much? What state of intoxication are you in?

(Anonymous) 2014-06-21 03:51 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt

The trouble is that I think the two cases are linked by agency: the violent drunk is considered to have agency; the drunk who has sex is considered not to have agency. There's a disconnect there that bothers me in a way that it seems I'm unable to describe.

But, drinking what and how much -- well, that depends on the person. I myself can usually have about four drinks of hard liquor before I've hit my limit. The state of intoxication where I see this disconnect does not involve confusion, disorientation, or unconsciousness.

(Anonymous) 2014-06-21 04:07 am (UTC)(link)
You take the consequences of the actions you performed. Having sex with a willing partner does not make that partner a victim of anything, while punching someone in the face, does make that person a victim of assault.

Where does agency come in?