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Re: Guys being creeps to you after weight loss?
(Anonymous) 2014-06-23 04:54 pm (UTC)(link)nayrt
(Anonymous) 2014-06-23 09:51 pm (UTC)(link)But I'm just speaking as someone who's experienced boundary violations by people who claimed to care about me. And I'm not proud to admit this, but I sense I've done my share of it to others as well. So now whenever it comes to being interested in people--in a romantic sense, platonic sense, or otherwise--I'm always checking myself, and others to some extent. I don't pretend that it's best to find relationships where there is zero conflict, but I definitely don't want to seek out a bunch of drama when I don't have to.
Re: Guys being creeps to you after weight loss?
(Anonymous) 2014-06-23 10:49 pm (UTC)(link)You probably won't see this because it's so late but it's not about just finding me attractive, that's fine, it's the out of line sexual advances that I dislike. Also, I'm not into men and they're the ones being creeps (I know women could be too but it's never happened to me) so it's just an extra layer of discomfort. And the whole "that's how our species exists" thing doesn't exactly apply when you're not interested in the opposite sex.