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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-06-23 06:32 pm

[ SECRET POST #2729 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2729 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[killer is dead]


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03.
[Lackadaisy]


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04.
[Joe Trohman, Fall Out Boy]


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05.
[Yowamushi Pedal]


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06.
[How To Train Your Dragon 2]


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[A Game of Thrones]


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08.
[Fruit's Basket]


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09.
[Community]


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[Rythian, a.k.a Joakim Hellstrand]


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11.
[The Devil Wears Prada]


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[Night Court]










Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 057 secrets from Secret Submission Post #390.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2014-06-24 04:28 am (UTC)(link)
"I'm tired of being fat. I wish I could change it."

Exact quote from the anon's comment. It's not like the advice is coming out of left field here, and NOBODY in the comments above you suggested that losing weight was easy. Most people said the exact opposite. Nobody's trying to harsh the anon's fat positivity because anon doesn't have any. Anon specifically stated they wished to change.

I'm fat. I've been the object of LOTS of unsolicited advice about weight loss, mostly from family, so I get your rage, really I do. But it seems a little misdirected here.

(Anonymous) 2014-06-24 05:05 pm (UTC)(link)
I could have said that exact sentence you quoted, yet in no way would I want weight loss advice. For me, it's money. When my grandmother died and left me $5000, I joined a gym and was able to buy healthy foods like chicken breasts and fresh fruits and vegetables. All things I love. But then the money ran out. And I'm back to working three jobs with no time to go to the gym, even if I had the money to aford the membership. And food is back to hot dogs, cheap hamburgers, pasta with butter, etc. Filling cheap things which are so bad for me. And guess what? Not only did I not lose any more weight, I gained it all back. So just because someone makes a statement like the OP did, doesn't mean they need/want weight loss advice. Most of us have heard the "eat less/healthy and exercise more" mantra a million times already. Hearing it one morw time isn't going to be some magic thing that makes a light bulb go off, causing us to lose weight.