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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-07-01 06:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #2737 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2737 ⌋

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Re: Your berserk buttons

(Anonymous) 2014-07-02 03:40 am (UTC)(link)
I get that sometimes people have rough days, and it can be harder.

lmao no, you don't "get" it.

Yes, bad energy sucks. But no one is "pushing" it on anyone else. You are choosing to take offense to it and let it darken your day. You cannot control people's behavior anymore than they can control you being annoyed by a rude verbal exchange.

And you know, it could be a lot worse. They could tell you to fuck off. They could give you way too much information of the non-positive kind. They could choose to not respond at all. When they gruff "fine" at you, it's probably best to cut your losses and hope the next customer isn't such a grump.

By the way, there is a difference between being polite and being kind.

The thing you are seeking is politeness.

The thing you are lacking is kindness.
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Re: Your berserk buttons

[personal profile] toku_mei 2014-07-02 04:03 am (UTC)(link)
Lol so, I shouldn't get annoyed by jerks because "it could be worse"? Especially considering you don't know my personal experiences, that's kind of funny. Heaven forbid I have a pet peeve, but it's good you're fighting the good fight for people who are assholes everywhere. Because apparently me being frustrated with the concept of people a) taking their anger and frustrations out on other people or b) just not treating others as human beings and returning courtesy that is offered to them is just too offensive to you.

And look at you, so deep. lol Love those last two lines.