case: (Default)
Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-07-02 05:58 pm
  • Add Memory
  • Share This Entry

[ SECRET POST #2738 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2738 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.


__________________________________________________



02.
[Wizards vs. Aliens]


__________________________________________________



03.
[Hayao Miyazaki]


__________________________________________________



04.
[Dragon Age Inquisition]


__________________________________________________



05.
[Sarah Michelle Gellar and Lena Horne]


__________________________________________________



06.
[Girl Genius]


__________________________________________________



07.
[Dark Souls]


__________________________________________________



08.
[TRON: Legacy]


__________________________________________________



09.
[Phantom of the Opera]


__________________________________________________



10.
[Grand Theft Auto: San Andreas]








Notes:

Big thunderstorm here, hoping the power stays up. Early to be safe!

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 031 secrets from Secret Submission Post #391.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Flat | Top-Level Comments Only

(frozen comment)

(Anonymous) 2014-07-03 12:00 am (UTC)(link)
"skank" is slut-shaming and abusive. both the anons (if they're not the same person) were being bullied and mocked. how is "YOU ARE A HUGE FAKE" not bullying? and dethtoll was ecouraging all this!

you really can't see this? i thought fandom secrets was better than this kind of shit. i'm not surprised i'm wrong, but i am disappointed
case: (:o)

(frozen comment)

[personal profile] case 2014-07-03 12:06 am (UTC)(link)
Unfortunately, being mocked is different from being bullied, and I feel it's very important to keep this distinction clear. Or else every time anyone flings one insult, it's bullying! Which it isn't.

I am sorry to have disappointed you by doing this, if I have!
Edited 2014-07-03 00:10 (UTC)

(frozen comment)

(Anonymous) 2014-07-03 12:13 am (UTC)(link)
so the MAN who runs fandomsecrets ignores a clear-cut case of bullying and slut-shaming because it doesn't meet HIS definition of bullying, and freezes a thread about slut-shaming for no good reason

good to know women aren't safe here
case: (pic#3612161)

(frozen comment)

[personal profile] case 2014-07-03 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
I froze the thread because the thread to alert me to things going on in threads is not the place to debate the validity of the term "slut-shaming." You can go on and do that in GC if you like! :)

As for the rest, I have to just repeat myself, I guess:

Unfortunately, being mocked is different from being bullied, and I feel it's very important to keep this distinction clear. Or else every time anyone flings one insult, it's bullying! Which it isn't.

I am sorry to have disappointed you by doing this, if I have!

(frozen comment)

(Anonymous) 2014-07-03 12:28 am (UTC)(link)
that is YOUR definition of bullying. but mocking IS bullying, "skank" IS slut-shaming, and any safe space run by a MAN is by definition not a safe space
case: (:o)

(frozen comment)

[personal profile] case 2014-07-03 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe you should find a safer space, not run by a man, where the general consensus is that one line of mocking is considered full-force bullying, then. It seems you would be happier and more secure there.

I'm not sure where such a place might be, though. I'd be interested in finding out, if you know of any.

(frozen comment)

(Anonymous) 2014-07-03 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
Is fs really even supposed to be a safe space though?
kallanda_lee: (Default)

(frozen comment)

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2014-07-03 01:31 am (UTC)(link)
No, it's not. It's just that most of us are courteous with language and trigger warnings and the like - but that's mostly goodwill, not something enforced.

(frozen comment)

(Anonymous) 2014-07-03 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
I think you need to take a break from the internet for a while and I mean that in the best possible way

(frozen comment)

(Anonymous) 2014-07-03 12:16 am (UTC)(link)
no, i won't get back in the kitchen like a good little woman, you patronizing creep
case: (:o)

(frozen comment)

[personal profile] case 2014-07-03 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
Let's not start more debates here, please!

(frozen comment)

(Anonymous) 2014-07-03 02:00 am (UTC)(link)
Of course it's slut shaming. Of course it's abusive...because SLUTS FUCKING DESERVE TO BE SHAMED AND ABUSED YOU FUCKING SLUT.

LOOK UP THE WORD SLUT YOU SNANK, IT'S NOT A GOOD THING, AS A SOCIETY WE'RE SUPPOSED TO SLAME THOSE DIRTY SLUTS YOU FUCKING SLUT.

SERIOUSLY CLENCH DOWN AND KNOCK THE BENATON RAINBOW OF COCKS OUT OF YOUR SLUTHOLE FOR 3 MINUTES AND READ A BOOK.
case: (:<)

(frozen comment)

[personal profile] case 2014-07-03 02:01 am (UTC)(link)
Seriously, stop.
Flat | Top-Level Comments Only