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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-07-11 06:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #2747 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2747 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Hobbit/Thorin Oakenshield]


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[The Vincent Black Shadow]


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[El Goonish Shive]


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[Miss Fisher's Murder Mysteries]


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[Penny Dreadful]


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[Supernatural]


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[Blake's 7]


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[Edge of Tomorrow/Tom Cruise]


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[Quirk]


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18. [WARNING for rape]



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Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #392.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 1 2 (tw: rape) - not!secrets ], [ 1 (?) - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - ships it ].
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Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 11:04 am (UTC)(link)
There are more ways of showing consent than verbally, that's true. The clarity of signals is on a sliding scale. The closer to "explicitly, enthusiastic and verbal" you get, the more sure you can be that you're not committing rape.

If you don't believe that people accidentally rape other people, you really ought to read a few survivor stories.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 11:15 am (UTC)(link)
But I'm not going to make the first move, so I'm not going to rape anyone. In fact I want someone to pounce me already.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 11:30 am (UTC)(link)
If I enjoyed it then I wasn't raped. Don't try to speak for me, cunt.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 11:42 am (UTC)(link)
She's a tumblrshit, she hates people making their own decisions on their own personal life. Everyone must do exactly as she does! Independent thoughts will NOT be tolerated!

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2014-07-14 04:16 am (UTC)(link)
That's exactly what I'm describing like two posts further up - "this obviously isn't rape, A just has no way of knowing that". How you got "this is rape!" out of "this isn't rape, it's just shitty" will forever remain your secret.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2014-07-14 07:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Shut the fuck up, you misogynistic animal. Don't ever use a term like again.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 11:47 am (UTC)(link)
I still think that if your partner is enjoying the act, that's a very faithful indicator that they're not being raped. And if, you know. They don't consider themselves raped. But you don't sound like the type that accepts different opinions.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2014-07-14 04:35 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, it's a pretty strong signal. In fact, I think body language is probably very comparable to verbal on-the-spot agreement because tone and body language are equally difficult to read, so they provide both roughly the same degree of information re: consent. Also, I think body language is easier and less embarrassing for a lot of people, and not being embarrassed during sex is much more awesome than being embarrassed during sex.

If you actually know your partner doesn't consider themselves to have been raped, you're, uh, obviously pretty golden re: the accidentally raping thing. Not sure why you're bringing this up?