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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-07-11 06:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #2747 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2747 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Hobbit/Thorin Oakenshield]


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[The Vincent Black Shadow]


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[El Goonish Shive]


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[Miss Fisher's Murder Mysteries]


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[Penny Dreadful]


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[Supernatural]


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[Blake's 7]


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[Edge of Tomorrow/Tom Cruise]


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[Quirk]


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[Homestuck]




















18. [WARNING for rape]



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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #392.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 1 2 (tw: rape) - not!secrets ], [ 1 (?) - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - ships it ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 11:54 am (UTC)(link)
That's because that's how most people express their consent, genius. If you want to play the special snowflake, go do it somewhere where you don't piss on other people's sexual lives.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2014-07-14 04:31 am (UTC)(link)
There's always a risk of accidentally raping someone, although it's usually negligible.

The less clear the signals you rely on are, the higher the risks get. This probably makes you uncomfortable, but it's a fact. Rape is a risk when you're having sex, and trying to minimise it (much like the risk of pregnancy and STI transmission) is a good idea. How safe you want to be exactly is, as always, obviously up to you.

Of course, in this case, by refusing to give clear signals, you're also helping to establish a standard that makes accidental rapes more likely, because you're giving people the experience that these signals were sufficient. That doesn't make you a rape victim, it just makes you the kind of person who causes victims of accidental rape down the line. If you're cool with that, I'm not gonna stop you. Just, you know. Own up to it.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2014-07-14 05:07 am (UTC)(link)
Nice attempt at guilt-tripping people, but it would have had more effect if you had also mentioned the poor starving children in Africa.