case: (Default)
Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-07-19 03:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #2755 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2755 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.


__________________________________________________



02.


__________________________________________________



03.


__________________________________________________



04.


__________________________________________________



05.


__________________________________________________



06.


__________________________________________________



07.


__________________________________________________



08.


__________________________________________________



09.


__________________________________________________



10.


__________________________________________________



11.


__________________________________________________



12.


__________________________________________________



13.


__________________________________________________



14.











Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 094 secrets from Secret Submission Post #394.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
arcadiaego: Grey, cartoon cat Pusheen being petted (Default)

[personal profile] arcadiaego 2014-07-19 09:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Then you'll have seen the debates X Men is representing in our own community, most likely.

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 09:19 pm (UTC)(link)
And I don't agree. So?
arcadiaego: Grey, cartoon cat Pusheen being petted (Default)

[personal profile] arcadiaego 2014-07-19 09:23 pm (UTC)(link)
You're saying that she should stop moaning because she could look like a conventionally attractive woman. That's not disagreeing about whether it's ok to get mad or be nice, that's just not engaging with the argument at all. But I don't think we're going to get any further, as you seem set on that, and after all, it is only a metaphor for violence being done against minorities, not an actual example of it worth getting worked up over.

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 09:26 pm (UTC)(link)
She should stop moaning because she can literally look like WHATEVER she wants to WHENEVER she wants to.
arcadiaego: Grey, cartoon cat Pusheen being petted (Default)

[personal profile] arcadiaego 2014-07-19 09:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, ok, you obviously want to discuss an AU that exists in your head, so I'll say bye for now!

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 09:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Nope, don't want to discuss anything, actually. Just trying to get it through your head that because you can sympathize with someone because Metaphor™, that doesn't work for everyone.

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 09:57 pm (UTC)(link)
As opposed to you, who's trying to argue that since the metaphor doesn't work for you, it shouldn't work for anyone.

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 10:05 pm (UTC)(link)
No. From the very beginning, I said I can't sympathize with her and I can't fathom why she'd join the slaughter-all-humans team. Never that no one should, just that I personally don't.
nyxelestia: Rose Icon (Default)

Let's try a different metaphor, then.

[personal profile] nyxelestia 2014-07-20 12:18 am (UTC)(link)
Joining a terrorist group wasn't the best reaction to her dilemma, but that doesn't mean her actual dilemma is somehow invalid. I mean, a lot of the stuff the Black Panthers did in the early civil rights era was terrible, but that doesn't mean racism wasn't a real, legitimate problem. A bad solution doesn't erase the problem.

If the whole "wanting to be blue" metaphor doesn't make sense, look at this way: let's say you have a very conventionally attractive man. He can roll out of bed and look like a cover model, puts on muscle with barely any work, and his hair always looks fantastic no matter what he does.

That won't mean a damn thing for him if he wants to wear a dress when he goes to work or does his groceries. He might as well be hideous - even if he knows he's not, not by societal standards - because it's not him.

And that's the point. Raven should be able to be her blue self and walk down the street or go to work or do groceries or whatever without fearing harassment or assault. But she isn't - she has to change her appearance. A man wearing a dress is liable to get attacked or killed in many parts of America and the world today, and in the Marvel universe, if Raven were to walk down the street as her blue-scaled self, she is very likely to get harassed or assaulted for it, and possibly even killed. Just for looking like herself.

And while the "changing appearance" part doesn't apply as much for people of color, the whole "being safe looking like yourself" part is. A black person should never have to live in fear of being harassed, attacked, or arrested just for walking down the street, yet that's exactly what happens for people across America (Trayvon Martin, anyone?).

No one should ever have to live in fear of looking like themselves.

It doesn't matter how she changes her appearance - the fact that she has to at all is the problem.

Re: Let's try a different metaphor, then.

(Anonymous) 2014-07-20 12:49 am (UTC)(link)
This. This whole argument is starting to sound a lot like "If you're conventionally attractive, your problems aren't valid and you should just shut up and be grateful that you're ~so lucky~ to be pretty."

I'm detecting a lot of jealousy here, to be honest.

(Anonymous) 2014-07-21 01:12 pm (UTC)(link)
It doesn't matter how she changes her appearance - the fact that she has to at all is the problem.
Yes. This. Thank you.

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 09:59 pm (UTC)(link)
lol I love this comment

I'm so happy you stopped talking to that dumbass troll.
arcadiaego: Grey, cartoon cat Pusheen being petted (Default)

[personal profile] arcadiaego 2014-07-19 10:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Pusheen only puts up with so much.

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 10:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Someone disagrees. It must be a troll.

Yeahhhh.

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 10:11 pm (UTC)(link)
A dumbass troll, to be exact. :)

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 10:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Mature.

(Anonymous) 2014-07-20 02:00 am (UTC)(link)
Very mature. :)

(Anonymous) 2014-07-20 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, but what if she WANTS to look blue all the time? Of course, joining a terrorist group over it is awful and not going to help anything, but your argument is completely flawed.