[ SECRET POST #2759 ]

[case]

⌈ Secret Post #2759 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 033 secrets from Secret Submission Post #394.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

F!S Anxiety

[(Anonymous)]

Every single time I post a secret, I get shaking hands and a pounding heart when I read or reply to the comments. I'm always terrified someone is going to hate me.

Which is completely irrational because in real life? I do not give a damn. And I don't even HAVE an account so everything is anonymous anyway.

Show of hands or am I alone?

Re: F!S Anxiety

[fingalsanteater]

I used to be like this, but not anymore.

Re: F!S Anxiety

[(Anonymous)]

I've been here for years :( But I don't post/comment often, so that probably would help.

Re: F!S Anxiety

[jaybie_jarrett]

*hug*

I usually worry that someone is going to make fun of me and make me feel like a loser. But at the end of the day, it's just words from some random schmoe on the other side of a computer.

Just try telling yourself "user/anon hating me will have NO bearing on my actual life"

Feeling like that sucks I getcha.

Re: F!S Anxiety

[(Anonymous)]

It's really funny because teenagers threw an open waterbottle at me from a moving car the other day and I did not care.

BUT PEOPLE ON THE INTERNET MIGHT THINK I AM WRONG. And it makes me nauseous.

Re: F!S Anxiety

[jaybie_jarrett]

Ah...The mind can be a funny thing. It cares about some things, but don't give a shit about something else.

Re: F!S Anxiety

[dethtoll]

You're anonymous. Anyone hates you, they hate your IP which Case may or may not be logging. I guarantee you if they met you on the street, they wouldn't know who you were.

Re: F!S Anxiety

[(Anonymous)]

This is also true. I know it's illogical, I just have trouble stopping it.

Re: F!S Anxiety

[dethtoll]

I understand.

Re: F!S Anxiety

[(Anonymous)]

I've gotten so sensitive to replies lately that something even remotely negative will make me throw up. It sucks a lot, but I'm trying to develop coping strategies and learn to not ruminate on the things I've said. I'm sure one day things will be different.

I hope you can come to a better place too anon. And if it persists, well, that's what therapy is for. I know I'm going back as soon as I muster the energy.

Re: F!S Anxiety

[cbrachyrhynchos]

I'm getting that largely because I'm not posting snarky secrets anymore, I'm posting secret secrets. I have little shame when it comes to saying that I think something is bad anymore.

Re: F!S Anxiety

[icecheetah]

I used to be like that, but I learned how chill and non-judgemental Case is and have actually submitted secrets off anon.

Re: F!S Anxiety

[(Anonymous)]

I don't even read them, or reply. Even if it's completely innocent. It's just too stressful.

Re: F!S Anxiety

[(Anonymous)]

Same. I did read one and it was fine, but as a rule I don't read them. None of mine have turned into a reference like Husky Wank, though, so I feel like I'm doing well enough.

Re: F!S Anxiety

[(Anonymous)]

I have that problem, too, Especially if I'm being even slightly confrontational in a comment. Even when I know I'm right.

It doesn't happen in RL because people are less assholish in RL.

Re: F!S Anxiety

[(Anonymous)]

I used to be and then I got in, like, four arguments and I stopped being concerned with it.